There's much more to Life!

We often come across people in life whom once we have never known, but then they end up being and occupy an important place in our life! We never know how long they will be in our lives, but for how much ever time they are there, their presence makes us happy, helps us grow, learn and aren't these the only objectives of life too?

Everything that happens here, everyone whom we come across teaches us something, no matter how big or small the lesson is, it’s a lesson after-all!

Finding someone worth a while, worth your efforts is never any sort of game. Not necessarily a lover, but also a best friend, 'partner in crime' as we call it these days.  

Someone who listens and remembers, 

scolds real bad but appreciates harder, 

somebody who wants you to become a better person and it shows in their actions not just words,

somebody who would pick your calls up at three in the morning, pick you up from parties that go little out of hand after one or more drinks,

someone who still opens the car door for you a year or more after winning you over! 

Somebody who loves  your crazy side more than your sincere one. 

Somebody who is not afraid to tell you his secrets no matter how big or small they are!  

Somebody with whom you can talk to about any shit your mind covers from aliens and weed to humans and love! 

There will always be that one person other than your family who will always be by your side, will always be defending you in public BUT getting the hell out of you when its just two of you! They’ll shut people up who think you're too skinny to survive, but force you to eat tons lot than your capacity when no ones around. We think people we have known for longer are more loyal towards us than those whom we've known for less period of time but rare few times this ain't the case.

In today's time things are pretty messed up, isn't it? Like, all of a sudden someone just wakes up and decides to never to talk to you again. 

No reason. No explanation. No words. 

They just leave and make it all look so easy and simple! We keep thinking of how and where things went wrong instead of knowing and telling ourselves that we are valuable, we are needed, we're not a lost cause or a disaster that can't be saved or healed! When will we really stop stressing over someone that wont even text to see if you're alright? 

We all have such breakdowns with people that are too dear to us in our lives. We spend days, months and may be over an year moaning over it, the so called loss that we realize wasn’t even worth so much attention, years later. Obviously the pain remains there forever, but it definitely rests down deep with time, in the core of the heart and mind. Yes relationships matter, people matter, every damn thing in this universe matters but not at the cost of our own health, happiness and mental well being. 

But whats more important after all this is, that, one fine day, we realize and start getting serious about a healthy body, a healthy mind, good grades, saving money, and positive relationships and most importantly being happy! That’s where the freedom lies!!