Friday, January 29, 2016

Dear Someone Who Walked Away!

 Do what you did in the beginning of a relationship,  and see,  you will never find an end to it.  😊😊

Dear Someone Who Walked Away,

It’s not like you weren’t aware of what you were getting yourself into. You knew she was nice. She trusted easily and gave you all that she could, whether time favored or not!

The nice girls believes in solving things right. She was there when you needed her to be, and she went out of her way to make sure you knew just how much you could mean to someone.

I guess, We live in a generation where we all are busy changing masks and play parts to impress people you don’t even know.We like quotes on Facebook and post things on Instagram. We play these games where 'being available' can only happen sometimes, and 'being hard-to-get' must be our number one priority. Why?

I thought the final goal was to eventually settle down with peace along with wealth. I mean, what is the point of dating if you have no desire for it to go anywhere? If a one-night stand is what you’re looking for, leave the good girls and guys alone and play with the people who are ready to come down to your levels.

It takes time and energy, because a good girl/ guy will not easily walk away as if nothing ever happened or a relationship doesn’t matter. The good girl and guys cares, so she'll get  her explanation from you even though she knows it’ll be a load s of hurting and suffering.

You went through something, like we all do, and because of it you changed. It’s normal and heartbreak happens, but the next one can't fix what the first one did; he will keep it the same or make it worse.

I won’t deny that the new girl you go with will be fun or that a good time isn’t promised with her, but when it’s all said and done before, is it ever more than just a good time? Probably not.

You tried to push the nice girl away. When she wouldn’t go away, you pushed harder. Still, she didn’t give up and every time you pushed harder, she pulled you in even more.

She ignored your fears and forced you to grow; she fought for your dreams along with hers when you were too busy writing them off. She forgot her wants and focused on everything you needed. Then you walked away just because you wanted to, just because you decided to. That is where you FAILED!

The girl has been hurt too, but she just chose to stay nice. She learned that different people were going to provide her different things in life. The girl also chose not  to let any of it change who she was and there she WON!

So, she let you walk away and she called it  a day. As everyone says, 'there are plenty of fish in the sea', and she let you go knowing this, even though it hurt, a lot more than you can ever imagine of.

What you don’t know is that someone else is out there, and he won’t be as you. When you realize all you really want is the nice girl who cares about you too much, it’s going to be too late. Some other guy will be able to see how great she is, and he won’t waste a minute.

So you lost your Victoria Beckham and, I promise, to her you were her David Beckham. She was  there to give you a light  to something more than the games our generation plays..

The new one may have loved you too soon and it was too crazy and too much, but girls  like Victoria don’t happen every day; they happen never. She got you those long calls and talks, and  she made you feel love when love was no longer a part of your vocabulary. You will now say “I love you” again, may be to somebody else and remember what it felt like before!

She was the girl you were supposed to end up with, who could do anything it takes to make you happy and content. I just wish you’d see it before another guy does because at the end of the day, everyone, including the nice girl you think you don’t deserve, will be left for heavenly abode!


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