How Much Is Too Much!

There are junctures when we're no more talking to some people in our lives, be it-friends from school, 

friends from college who once were your side-kicks- today you don’t even want to see them. 

Colleagues who were once very supportive have turned into mingy ones. 

If we recollect, we all will have a long-winded list of people we no more are in touch with for some reasons that if thought again-aren't that prime enough.

Each person we share our life with never happens to have given us ONLY the hard times or JUST the good ones either. Its always a sequence of both. There will be seasons you would thank God for having such amazing people with you, but then their will be those shifts too when you wouldn't anymore want several of them to be there-because they made you upset and caused your heart to ache! Our generation is one such, where we tend to judge people the very next minute we make acquaintance with them.

Putting our thoughts into all the things that caused us pain or gave us a hard time, hands us nothing but more and more reasons to feel dejected and be wistful. Calling in mind those infinite good things, no matter how small or big- that has ever happened and keeps on happening, gives us out and out positive standpoint towards life and people. It's not something we do for others, it's for OUR own mental peace, OUR happiness. we relieve ourselves of all the unnecessary thoughts our mind hold. It is being selfish- in a beneficial way! 

For- may be 10 or say 20 years from now, it'll be all the good times & memories, those unplanned laughs & sudden-shot incidents that will make you smile and cherish this journey we all are into. If we ever get to cross our roads, after a few years with someone who we no more talked to back then and still, ring a bell!  There'll definitely be one reason, at-least one small reason to pass on a smile- the good time you spent with them, once upon a time in life.

We've got one definite life. I don't know much, but I surely do not want to spend it hating people. It's not possible to get along with everyone we know or meet, but keeping up with those few we choose to, shouldn't be an option either. Well, it's human nature, people hurt you, you hurt some, but what's the point holding grudges and saying goodbyes forever. Not unless we learn to forgive and let go,do we grow.